Be bold, but make sure you don’t get reported. Once you have their attention, they are yours! Check out my blog post on the Psychology of Attraction and the art of peacocking and use what your learn there to your advantage while on the random chat sites. A puppy for example will surely elicit a response from every girl you get matched against. To get the chance to be heard by girls you need something to make a shocking first impression! Experiment using different objects draw attention to yourself. Random chat sites are extremely superficial if you look just like every other guy on the site, girls will just skip you without thinking twice.
Are girls hitting on “next” before you even get a chance to type ‘hello’?